Empower your relationships
Learn proven communication, conflict resolution, and emotional connection skills -build stronger, healthier bonds.
Unlock Powerful Relationship Skills with World’s First AI Coach at Home!
Empower your relationship with PAIRS' AI coach. Explore proven psychology, therapy, and counseling techniques in the comfort and privacy of your home.
Feel the difference
Discover immediate benefits and practical tools to improve your relationships right away.
Your journey,
your pace
Use Yodi at your own pace, with complete privacy, and for one low monthly subscription fee.
How Yodi can help
A simple set of tools helps you say how you feel
- Format - We give you the format for communicating about tricky topics that puts everyone at ease.
- Safety - These tools allow us to tackle difficult topics while ensuring we feel safe, valued, and heard in the conversation.
- Research- Founded in 1983 by Lori Heyman Gordan, PAIRS has had many years to refine these tools.
- Exercises - These tools aren't silver bullets. They will only work when we are willing to practice and internalize these habits.
Practical, Proven & Usable
The secret to a better relationship?
It isn’t a secret at all.
Yodi is based on PAIRS, the Practical Application of Intimate Relationship Skills program. PAIRS was developed by leading therapists and educators such as Virginia Satir, Daniel Casriel, George Bach and Lori Heyman Gordon to help couples, marriages and families.
PAIRS has helped therapists, counselors and also directly helped singles, couples and families improve relationships for nearly half a century. Practical skills for successful relationships, including effective communication, relationship coaching, and an AI-powered emotions mentor.
What is PAIRS?
#1 Trained in PAIRS
Yodi is trained in PAIRS, a nationally-accredited, industry leader in relationship skills training for nearly half a century. PAIRS integrates the most effective skills from psychology, therapy, and counseling into an educational program.
#2 Evidence-Based
Yodi delivers proven, evidence-based exercises developed by leading pioneers in the fields of counseling, therapy, psychology, psychiatry and education including Drs. Virginia Satir, Daniel Casriel, George Bach, and Lori Heyman Gordon.
#3 Complete Triad
Yodi covers the triad of communication, conflict resolution, and emotional connection skills -- the critical combination of competencies required for creating and sustaining successful relationships that many learn in therapy.
#4 Alone or With a Partner
Yodi can be used alone or with a partner. Each exercise can be done with Yodi as an exercise partner or with a real partner.
#5 Practical
Yodi will teach you practical, usable skills. You'll learn tools that will produce a lifetime of benefits based on the teachings of pioneers in the fields of psychiatry, humanistic psychology, cognitive behavioral therapy (cbt), couples counseling, and education.
#6 Results
You'll discover immediate benefits. PAIRS delivers valuable insights and takeaways that psychiatrists such as former Cornell Medical Center Director Dr. Clifford Sager called his "most important professional and personal tool."
#7 Your Own Pace
You can go at your own pace with Yodi. Learn a lesson at a time or spend hours exploring skills originally developed to help marriage therapists and marriage counselors help their clients. Yodi helps you become your own best counselor.
#8 Time Tested
The skills you'll learn with Yodi are time-tested. PAIRS has been researched and refined since 1975. The foundation of the PAIRS' approach to helping couples was developed by Psychiatrist Daniel Casriel, Psychologist Virginia Satir, and Marriage and Family Therapist Lori Gordon.
#9 Confidential
Your experience with Yodi is completely confidential. Your privacy is protected according to the highest professional ethical standards. PAIRS Foundation is a nationally accredited nonprofit that is mission and vision driven to serve clients and communities.
#10 Affordable
Yodi is affordable. Basic exercises are free. The full range of skills are available for a $3.99/month subscription. You'll receive access to powerful, practical, usable therapeutic, counseling, and psychological skills in an educational format to explore for your own benefit.
Yodi will help you help your relationship …
- Clarify relationship expectations
- Overcome a sense of distance
- Learn to ask for what you want
- Communicate effectively about differences
- Get relief from painful, upsetting emotions
- Discover how to fight for your relationships
- Expand self-awareness and self-esteem
- Let go of grudges
- Track your relationship pleasure resources
Practical, Proven, Usable
Yodi is based on PAIRS, the Practical Application of Intimate Relationship Skills program. PAIRS was developed by leading therapists and educators such as Virginia Satir, Daniel Casriel, George Bach and Lori Heyman Gordon to help couples, marriages and families.
PAIRS has helped therapists, counselors and also directly helped singles, couples and families improve relationships for nearly half a century.
Practical skills for successful relationships, including effective communication, relationship coaching, and an AI-powered emotions mentor.
Get Yodi today!
AI Assisted Exercises
Using the latest in AI technology, we're designing a companion for learning these conversational tools.
Along with any other practice partners you can find, let's make the world a kinder, more compassionate place.
How We Can Help
A simple set of tools to help you say how you feel
Format
We give you the format for communicating about tricky topics that puts everyone at ease.
Built-In Safety
These tools allow us to tackle difficult topics while ensuring we feel safe, valued, and heard in the conversation.
Research
Founded in 1983 by Lori Heyman Gordan, PAIRS has had many years to refine these tools.
Exercises
These tools aren't silver bullets. They will only work when we are willing to practice and internalize these habits.
